assert: improve partialDeepStrictEqual performance and add benchmark

[puskin]

now that #54630 has landed, I took the liberty to review the code I wrote to look for improvements that would squeeze some more performance out of the comparison mechanism

• simplified some logic
• reviewed loops and introduced more breaking points to make them run for less cycles
• added a benchmark file to test future possible regressions when it comes to partialDeepStrictEqual

Refs: #54630